About this app
What Suitor does
Suitor is a quiet, private coach for the side of dating apps that no one helps you with: the photo you should lead with, the bio you should write, the first message you should send, and the date you should actually prepare for. What's in v1: — Photo Grader. Drop in up to 9 candidate photos from your camera roll. Suitor uses on-device Vision (face detection, brightness, blur, saliency) plus a hand-tuned heuristic stack to score each on five axes: clarity, expression, framing, color contrast, and "only-you-in-the-shot." You get an ordered shortlist and the reason for each rank. Photos never leave your phone. — Bio Studio. Eight bio templates (warm, dry, niche-interest, career-led, faith-led, traveler, recovery-aware, single-parent), with editable blanks. Plus a "writing rules" page with the patterns that recur in research-backed top-quartile bios (specificity, no negations, 1 strong opener, 1 invitation). — Date Prep. Before each date, log: where, what time, what they like, three first-question prompts, three things you'd rather not bring up first. Suitor surfaces these in a checklist 4 hours before the meeting time. — Reply Helper. Paste a recent message thread (text), get a short "what's actually happening here" reading + three reply options of escalating warmth. All on-device. — Aftercare. A 24-hour reflection prompt the morning after a date: what surprised you, what would you do again, what would you change. What Suitor is not: a chatbot that pretends to be your date. A photo retoucher. A swipe automator. A profile-builder that uploads anywhere. Free. Optional Suitor Plus unlock ($9.99 one-time) adds the specialty bio packs, the full Date-Prep history, and the Reply Helper's three-option export.
Features
Built to be useful, not noisy.
Photo Grader
On-device Vision grading + ordered shortlist with reasons.
Bio Studio
8 hand-written bio templates, fill-in-the-blank, plus writing rules.
Date Prep
Pre-date checklist surfaced 4 hours before the meeting.
Reply Helper
Paste thread → reading + 3 reply options.
Aftercare
Morning-after reflection prompt.
Why it exists
The problem
Match Group's stock is -75% from peak. Pew 2024: dating-app dissatisfaction at all-time highs. The frustration has 4 layers: bad photos (people pick the wrong shot), bad bios (boring or unflattering), dead-end conversations (no first-message technique), badly prepared first dates (no rehearsal). AI can address every l…
What's different
How Suitor stands out
Suitor is the only iOS dating coach where every operation runs on-device. Photo grading uses Apple Vision (no upload). Bio templates ship in the bundle (no API call). Reply Helper runs on-device LLM-free heuristics (pattern + tone analysis). Compared to RizzAgent (real-time earbud coach, cloud-based) and YourMove.ai (…
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FAQ
Questions about Suitor
How much does Suitor cost?▾
Suitor is free. All features are included from day one — no subscription, no in-app purchases, no paid tiers. Everything you see in this listing works the moment you install it.
Where does Suitor store my data?▾
On your device. Suitor is built privacy-first: no account is required, no analytics SDKs, no third-party trackers. Nothing is uploaded to a server we control — the app works without one.
What platforms does Suitor support?▾
iOS, on iPhone and iPad. You can find the latest availability on this page.
How do I get support for Suitor?▾
Use the Support link on this page, or email support@allthingsn.com. We answer every message and keep responses on the same thread.
The story
Meet Suitor — A quiet dating coach. On your phone. Off the cloud
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